How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams

Question

What are some sure fire things I could do to seem more as a boyfriend possibility than a friend to a group of girls from my youth group? I want to pass off as sweet, sensitive, yet desirable and attractive. Any tips, ideas, or pieces of advice?

Answer

Well, if these girls see you as a friend right now, they're going to see you taht way until something changes. Change brings forth attention and thus, the heightened possibilities of attraction. It doesn't guarantee attraction, but without it, your chances of attracting them in a continuum of what you're already doing, look like, and how you act are pretty slim. Of course, I don't know you or any of your attributes, but I do know that generally speaking, there could be a girl that likes you in that youth group right now, but she just doens't say anything because she doesn't think you like her. But if you want to get talked about in a positive way, whether it be in youth group or just walking down the street past a female or group of them, a change is definitely necessary.

Change how you do your hair. Hit up Structure and get some of their dressier more preppy clothes. Stay away from tshirts and even long sleeve t's as much as possible. Girls love a guy that wears sweaters and better yet, turtleneck sweaters. I've gotten tons of compliments on mine! since it's getting warm out, grab a couple of those flowered shirts they're selling at Structure, maybe. If you want to go out on a limb and really please the females while not giving a damn about what the guys think, grab a pair of the "long shorts" with the draw strings at the bottoms of the legs. They're kinda like the girl's capris, except for guys and they're going to be the THING to wear, I"m telling you!!! Wear some sandles with them and the confidence you'll get by changing things about yourself and getting compliments will make you feel better and consequentially make yuou a more FUN person, even though you won't even notice it. You'll just feel happier!

Then maybe hit up the weight room two to three times a week. Do Chest, shoulders, and tris on Monday.......Back, bis, and legs on Wednesday........and then Chest, shoulders, and tris again on Friday. Everything I'm telling you here are things that I've done to myself to make ME feel better about myself and get more attraction from the opposite sex. I went from having my hair parted on the side with glasses to contacts and a wild spikey, short haircut that has become my trademark that every girl wants to TOUCH to see how hard it is!!

Dress to impress.......lift and get yourself in shape or further your shape.............change something about your image personally......hair, earring, whatever you want.....I'd not suggest Tatoo, though!!!! That will limit you......a lot of girls don't want a guy that has a tatoo. But silver is the big thing lately. Get a ring for your left pinky and index finger and then another ring for your right ring finger. Get a silver watch and that combined with your dress and the way you look will give you some SERIOUS CLASS!!!!!

I hope this helped and let me know if you have any more questions!