How To Become Attractive To Women

Another slip up guys make in trying to become attractive is not taking the time to build one-one-one bond and connection with a girl. Again, here's what happens: the guy builds his social value by entertaining her friends, having social proof, teasing the girl, and so on, and then immediately tries to isolate the girl to take her home for sex. He just skips building bond and connection altogether.

The problem with this is, although you may seem like a cool guy to the girl, and she¡¯s attracted to you, you¡¯re still just a ¡°fun club guy¡±. She doesn¡¯t really know anything about you. You¡¯ve become attractive, but almost more like a larger than life cartoon character to her. You¡¯re not a real person to her. So even though she might feel highly attracted to you, she also feels no real connection with you as a real human being either.

It¡¯s as if a man walked into the club, walked up to the girl he liked, pulled her into the club bathroom (isolation) and started groping her all over. Yeah, she would feel attraction but she might also feel cheap and valueless since all that Brad Pitt wanted from her was sex - without even asking her name or spending the time to get to know her!

If you¡¯re just trying to become an attractive club guy to her, with no real connection, even if she did sleep with you, she¡¯d feel guilty about it afterward. If you are just an attractive club guy to her, with no real connection, even if you do get her number, she may feel weird talking to you later on the phone outside of the alternative-reality club environment.

That¡¯s why it¡¯s so important to build a bond and build a one-on-one personal connection with a girl ? otherwise you¡¯ll become attractive only as a player who is not interested in the girl for whom she is as a person, but interested in her only for sex.